I am disappointed that this was not diagnosed properly. As it turns out, all that I noted in my post and the logs just showed the normal operation of QM and QM was running the whole time but PBXinaFLASH had the port 8099 blocked.
Unfortunately, I had to waste many many hours with support to get this working but every time I was suggested a re-install and it was the wrong suggestion.
But it was solved with one quick call from Lorenzo. So, thanks.